DO YOU KNOW YOUR BABY'S LOVE LANGUAGE?

February 21, 2020

DO YOU KNOW YOUR BABY'S LOVE LANGUAGE?


We all agree being a parent is not an easy task but being a good parent goes beyond just birthing a child. There's a lot more involved - knowing what your child wants and understanding how you can be there for them when needed contributes to being a good parent. However, through the daily struggles of wanting to provide for your child it is easy to lose track of what they need the most which is LOVE. 

It could be frustrating when you do all you can to make your baby happy but your baby seems uninterested or unmoved by all you do so knowing your baby's love language is EVERYTHING!
 Knowing your baby's love language will help you tend to he/she more effectively because that way you know what they want, and how to relate their wants based on their different expressions. Just like adults babies want to be loved in different ways and most times they don't require much effort from you they just need you to be there, to be mindful and to be present.

That being said let's look at the five love languages so you can learn how to love yours.



1. Words Of Affirmation.

We all like it when nice things are said to us, your baby might just want you to also do that your baby wants to hear from you how much you love them. Tell your baby "I love you, I will always be there for you, I am proud of you" words of affirmation do the magic- the smiles, giggles and sweet look.

With babies whose love language is words of affirmation they always want to do better and always be on their best behavior to always hear you say sweet words to them, they love compliments, but be careful not to praise your baby only when they do something right, even when they are not behaving well you can scold and also encourage them all that matters is your tone.


2. Physical Touch

Some babies like to be touched more than the others, if your baby constantly places your hand on his or her head asking to be stroked, your baby wants to always be held, massaged or would jump at any activity that involves body touch then it could be that your child's love language is physical touch.

If physical touch is you baby's love language then your baby requires you to be affectionate they want their hugs, kisses and pecks as many times as they can get, they want to snuggle at every opportunity.



3. Quality Time

Spending quality time with your baby is also a way to find out their love language and giving them the love they want, no matter how short the time you get to spend with them all you have to do is make sure it is time well spent, where you can have time to bond with them and get to know them better, know their likes and dislikes and getting to know the tiny details about them while you play with them, love what they love, they want you to be available for them.

When you find out your child likes it when you spend time with them try to spend quality uninterrupted time with them, be available and be present.



4. Acts Of Service

Being involved could be your baby's love language, they want to help you and would always do things they know you like.

With a child whose love language is acts of service, indulge such child, be available for them and appreciate even the little things they do, you could create routines and schedules for tasks so they can feel more involved and wanted, create traditions with them because that would make them have something to look forward to.



5. Gifts

Some babies like gifts, they would do their happy dance when they get something new, they like treats, they like to be rewarded with gifts as frequently as you can give them, it is the thought behind these gifts that matter, just something they like and you know they might grow up to treasure.

Most babies are yet to figure out their love language so as a parent it is up to you to find out but before you do you could give out and be on the outlook for all that in your child, ask questions, make eye contacts, be attentive, be affectionate, create traditions that will help you know your baby better.

It is not just important to know these things but practicing them regularly is all that matters because it ensures a cordial relationship between you and your baby and also goes a long way to pronounce and show love to your baby.




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